Now, to you that have ever actually put your self on the line, walked up to the cliff, weighed your options and leaped, you could agree that it feels for that moment, the slight second before an answer comes that you are falling, and waiting to either come crashing down to the ground in bitter bitter defeat or some how take flight. for those of you that haven’t I think that everyone should at least once, just to understand what it is like. I’ve thought about why it is so hard and what I am afraid of and I think that it comes down to either one of two options. One, if you don’t know the person that well then you are being shot down for more superficial reasons, no = your ugly, sorry neither of us can help that. Two, if you know the person well then you are being shot down because the person thinks that they can do better then you, no = I like you enough to hand out with you but you are not attractive enough to make up for your personality or your personality does not make up for your looks, sorry I know I can do better then you. Its sad but that is what is heard because there has to be a reason.